How to Be a Better You

1.) In order to be a better you, Don’t take so much notice of how you feel and whats going on behind your back all the time. Stop worrying about what people think of you in-order to know how to be a better person. Get over it, at the end of the day only your thoughts and god ones matter.

2.) Please let go of worrying so much. It often and will makes things worse 9 out of 10. The more you think about something bad, the more likely it will happen. When you’re mind trigger on the ball to notice the first sign of concern, you’ll surely find something to convince yourself it’s coming. Sad but true.

3.)  Ease up on yourself. If you want to be happy, telling yourself you’re miserable will not help. People are always telling themselves how they feel, what they’re thinking or others, what others feel about them. Most of it is just your imagination. The rest is identical parts lies and misunderstandings somewhat. Nobody can’t tell you how to live your life, stop letting people control your life.

4.)  Stop judging people. You don’t know half of what is being said. You don’t want anybody judging you, so stop playing GOD. Just stay out of others business.

5.)  Give up on feeling guilty because guilt changes nothing in life. If you feel guilt-ridden about something you've done whichever, you could either do something to fix it or accept your screwed up and try not to repeat that mistake again. Then let it go. Now If you’re feeling guilty about what someone else did, I think you should see a psychiatrist. That’s insane.

I over-heard a person once said “It takes a brilliance man to live an uncomplicated life” and I completely agree. In this world of “dramatic distraction” and useless information overload, it is too easy to become obsessed or should I say overwhelmed, lose focus and be swept away from the things that matter most in life.

6.)  Don’t be concerned what the rest of the world have to says about you. Horrible people can’t make you mad and nice people can’t make you happy. Whatever emotions rise in you, they’re pretty much powerless until you decide to act on them.

7.)  How to be a better you: Stop letting other use you. If they cant help you don't help them. POINT BLANK!

8.)  Don’t let others use you to dodge being responsible for their own actions and decisions. For them to hold you responsible for their mistakes. It’s their life and they have to live it. You can’t do it for them; nor can you stop them from messing it up if they’re determined to do so.

9.)  Don’t concern yourself about your personality. You don’t really have one. Personality, like ego, is a only concept designed by your mind. It really doesn’t exist in the real world. Personality is just a word for the common impression that you give through your words and actions. If your personality isn’t likeable today, don’t worry because you can always change it. What repairs someone’s personality in one place is a single-minded determination on their part—usually through continually telling themselves they’re this or that kind of person and acting on what they say. If you don’t like the way you are, then make yourself different. You’re the only person who’s standing in your way of doing so.

10)  Nobody's Perfect so get over it, you can only be a better you not a perfect one. Mistakes will happen small or big, its always a lesson to be told when its all said and done. It don't have to be yours either, because you can learn the most watching and learning from others mistakes.


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